Here at Wishing Moon, we love praising you all on your marvellous qualities and encouraging you to be the best versions of yourselves that you can be. However, an important part of self-improvement involves identifying your weaknesses and looking for ways to be better. So today, we’re about to be extremely cruel to be kind. We’re going to highlight each star sign’s most annoying personality traits. Try not to take the criticism to heart. After all, we all have our flaws and for every fault we have, we have a multitude of wonderful and redeeming qualities.
Aries – Short-tempered
The average Aries is known for having a fiery and passionate personality. However, with emotions often running high, this can cause a short-temper and feisty edge. If you’re guilty of flying off the handle at the slightest annoyance, breathe deeply and count to ten whenever you find yourself getting wound up. On the positive side, people love your honesty and sometimes, your rants can be the source of so much amusement.
Taurus – Stubborn
Taureans are famous for being stubborn. From ignoring evidence that proves you wrong to refusing to eat at a different restaurant than the one originally planned, you have a tendency to be inflexible when it comes to changing your thoughts, beliefs and actions. If you’re keen to be a better person, try to cater for other people a little more. You don’t always have to be right and sometimes, it’s best to sit back and let someone else have their own way.
Gemini – Distrustful
Geminis can sometimes be distrustful of other people. They’re often guilty of trusting the wrong people and not trusting the right ones. If you’re a Gemini ridden with trust issues, remind yourself of all the wonderful experiences that comes with trusting people and letting your guard down. Sometimes, being a little vulnerable is necessary to live our best lives.
Cancer – Moody
Although the average Cancer can be great fun, you’ll probably admit that you have a moody side too. Your mood swings can be unpredictable and tough for other people to deal with, but it’s clear that your heart is in the right place. Your often dark and self-deprecating sense of humour can come across as miserable from the outside, but those who know you well will be able to see the funny side. If your moodiness affects your relationships, try to identify the source of your grumpy attitude. Perhaps you need to surround yourself with positivity and avoid things that rub you up the wrong way.
Leo – Possessive
As a Leo, you’re probably passionate, loyal and warm hearted, but also very possessive. You can get jealous easily if your best friend spends a lot of time with someone else. You may also trigger arguments in relationships if you doubt your partner’s commitment. By surrounding yourself with the right people, your possessiveness may soften a little. But ultimately it’s up to you to build your confidence so that you feel comfortable with those you care about spending time away from you. You can’t live in each other’s back pockets, after all.
Virgo – Pessimist
Virgos tend to be practical and organised individuals with an ability to think logically without letting their emotions get the best of them. However, if you’re a Virgo, you may often have a habit of being a little on the pessimistic side. This attitude tends to stem from their tendency to think critically and assess all sides. Try to have faith in other people and think positively rather than fearing the worst. Hope and excitement are important emotions and it makes no sense to block them out.
Libra – Superficial
As a Libra, you might often be criticised for obsessing over your appearance and overly concerning yourself with material items. If your superficial side stems from a need to be liked, it’s time to work on your self-confidence. A social media detox could help tremendously, particularly if you’re guilty of comparing yourself to others and curating your online life to seem better than your real one. Spend a few weeks living your life rather than seeking validation by sharing your every move with others.
Scorpio – Argumentative
If you’re a Scorpio, chances are you have an argumentative streak that can often do more harm than good. You love a good debate but sometimes this sees you picking on other people for having different views from your own. Avoid jumping on other people for expressing different views and don’t start debates with those who aren’t in the mood for fighting.
Sagittarius – Know-it-all
You’re well known for being wise and knowledgeable but sometimes you can come across as a bit of a know-it-all. If deep down you know you’re guilty of thinking you’re better than others, it’s time to tackle this judgemental flaw once and for all. Try to understand where other people are coming from and learn to put yourself in other people’s shoes. You can learn a lot from other people, even if you perceive yourself to be more smart than they are.
Capricorn – Lack of spontaneity
If there’s one thing that Capricorns love, it’s a plan. However, your passion for planning ahead and knowing exactly what to expect can leave you with a distinct lack of spontaneity. If this attitude prevents you from doing exciting things on the spur of the moment, this may annoy friends, relatives and partners. What’s the worst that could happen, Capricorn? Try to teach yourself that unplanned activities can often be the most exciting.
Aquarius – Contradictory
Despite their numerous positive qualities, Aquarians are well known for being hypocritical from time to time. Do you have a tendency to say one thing and do another? It’s time to mean what you say and say what you mean. If you expect other people to follow a certain set of rules, you need to follow them yourself.
Pisces – No boundaries
Pisces are well known for being one of the most caring and considerate signs of the zodiac. However, your compassion and selflessness can sometimes see you living without any boundaries whatsoever. Don’t let other people take advantage of you and learn to stand up for yourself. Your lack of boundaries could do more harm than good.